Like many women, ever since I was young, I've wanted to find my prince charming. He doesn't have to be perfect, he just has to be right for me. I see many of my friends married with children and I always thought I'd be at that point in my life by now. I guess I still have many lessons to learn.
I've been dating for as long as I can remember. Many boys, and men have entered and exited my life over the past 20 years, and I can remember them all. I've definitely grown as a person and a woman over time. However, I still tend to meet and get involved with men that just aren't the right fit, unavailable, immature, unstable, irrational, crazy, or lacking luster (ie. intelligence, motivation, compassion and the list goes on). On the contrary, during my search, I know I've met some great men and had some great relationships that just haven't worked for one reason or another. That being said, I know the right one is out there, somewhere...
This past January, while sitting on a Southwest flight waiting to come home from Seattle, via Chicago, (where I totally met a Prince... more to follow in another post), I met the coolest future wingwoman, "G". "G" got stuck with a high seating number and was forced to sit in a middle seat. Thank God she took the middle seat in my row! We hit it off immediately and started talking about our dating lives, of course! As intelligent women, who are still single, it's a valid topic for discussion. Especially when you have some crazy dating stories. After many stories and many laughs "G" told me I should write a blog. So, that's exactly what I'm doing!
I will submit entries and learned lessons about my past and current dating encounters. I am doing this partially to be relative to other women in my situation, but also to share these ridiculous, terrifying, and hilariously completely true stories. I preface that they are completely true, because I know some of you may think I'm making them up... and I AM NOT! I will only reference the men I write about with a phrase. Some, if not many of you, will know exactly whom I'm talking about. I just ask that you please be discreet if commenting, as my purpose is not to open Pandora's box. I believe that my experiences have occurred for a reason and have helped me to be aware of what I want and need in a relationship. I'm not quite there, but getting really close to finding the right person. And in knowing what I want, I am able to equally detect what I definitely do not want, and can pick up on strange behavior right away! Anyway, in no chronological order... here goes.....
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